July 1 – PM          Page 1, Bill’s Story, Chapter 1

WAR FEVER ran high in the New England town to which we new, young officers from Plattsburg were assigned, and we were flattered when the first citizens took us to their homes, making us feel heroic.  Here was love, applause, war; moments sublime with intervals hilarious.  I was part of life at last, and in the midst of the excitement I discovered liquor.  I forgot the strong warnings and the prejudices of my people concerning drink.  In time we sailed for “Over There.”  I was very lonely and again turned to alcohol.
We landed in England.  I visited Winchester Cathedral.  Much moved, I wandered outside.  My attention was caught by a doggerel on an old tombstone:

“Here lies a Hampshire Grenadier
Who caught his death
Drinking cold small beer.
A good soldier is ne’er forgot
Whether he dieth by musket
Or by pot.”

      Ominous warning—which I failed to heed.

July 1 – AM          Page 30, More About Alcoholism, Chapter 3

MOST OF US have been unwilling to admit we were real alcoholics.  No person likes to think he is bodily and mentally different from his fellows.  Therefore, it is not surprising that our drinking careers have been characterized by countless vain attempts to prove we could drink like other people.  The idea that somehow, someday he will control and enjoy his drinking is the great obsession of every abnormal drinker.  The persistence of this illusion is astonishing.  Many pursue it into the gates of insanity or death.

July 2 – PM          Page xv, Foreword To Second Edition (1955)

FOREWORD TO SECOND EDITION

Figures given in this foreword describe the
Fellowship as it was in 1955

SINCE the original Foreword to this book was written in 1939, a wholesale miracle has taken place.  Our earliest printing voiced the hope “that every alcoholic who journeys will find the Fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous at his destination.  Already,” continues the early text, “twos and threes and fives of us have sprung up in other communities.”
Sixteen years have elapsed between our first printing of this book and the presentation in 1955 of our second edition.  In that brief space, Alcoholics Anonymous has mushroomed into nearly 6,000 groups whose membership is far above 150,000 recovered alcoholics.  Groups are to be found in each of the United States and all of the provinces of Canada.  A.A. has flourishing communities in the British Isles, the Scandinavian countries, South Africa, South America, Mexico, Alaska, Australia and Hawaii.  All told, promising beginnings have been made in some 50 foreign countries and U.S. possessions.  Some are just now taking shape in Asia.  Many of our friends encourage us by saying that this is but a beginning, only the augury of a much larger future ahead.

July 2 – AM          Page 58, How It Works, Chapter 5

RARELY HAVE we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path.  Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves.  There are such unfortunates.  They are not at fault; they seem to have been born that way.  They are naturally incapable of grasping and developing a manner of living which demands rigorous honesty.  Their chances are less than average.  There are those, too, who suffer from grave emotional and mental disorders, but many of them do recover if they have the capacity to be honest.

July 3 – PM          Page 89, Working With Others, Chapter 7

PRACTICAL EXPERIENCE shows that nothing will so much insure immunity from drinking as intensive work with other alcoholics.  It works when other activities fail.  This is our twelfth suggestion:  Carry this message to other alcoholics!  You can help when no one else can.  You can secure their confidence when others fail.  Remember they are very ill.
Life will take on new meaning.  To watch people recover, to see them help others, to watch loneliness vanish, to see a fellowship grow up about you, to have a host of friends—this is an experience you must not miss.  We know you will not want to miss it.  Frequent contact with newcomers and with each other is the bright spot of our lives.

July 3 – AM          Page 44, We Agnostics, Chapter 4

IN THE PRECEDING chapters you have learned something of alcoholism.  We hope we have made clear the distinction between the alcoholic and the non-alcoholic.  If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking, you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic.  If that be the case, you may be suffering from an illness which only a spiritual experience will conquer.
To one who feels he is an atheist or agnostic such an experience seems impossible, but to continue as he is means disaster, especially if he is an alcoholic of the hopeless variety.  To be doomed to an alcoholic death or to live on a spiritual basis are not always easy alternatives to face.

July 4 – PM          Page 72, Into Action, Chapter 6

HAVING MADE our personal inventory, what shall we do about it?  We have been trying to get a new attitude, a new relationship with our Creator, and to discover the obstacles in our path.  We have admitted certain defects; we have ascertained in a rough way what the trouble is; we have put our finger on the weak items in our personal inventory.  Now these are about to be cast out.  This requires action on our part, which, when completed, will mean that we have admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being, the exact nature of our defects.  This brings us to the Fifth Step in the program of recovery mentioned in the preceding chapter.

July 4 – AM          Page 104, To Wives, Chapter 8

TO WIVES*

WITH FEW EXCEPTIONS, our book thus far has spoken of men.  But what we have said applies quite as much to women.  Our activities in behalf of women who drink are on the increase.  There is every evidence that women regain their health as readily as men if they try our suggestions.
But for every man who drinks others are involved—the wife who trembles in fear of the next debauch; the mother and father who see their son wasting away.
Among us are wives, relatives and friends whose problem has been solved, as well as some who have not yet found a happy solution.  We want the wives of Alcoholics Anonymous to address the wives of men who drink too much.  What they say will apply to nearly everyone bound by ties of blood or affection to an alcoholic.

*Written in 1939, when there were few women in A.A., this chapter assumes that the alcoholic in the home is likely to be the husband.  But many of the suggestions given here may be adapted to help the person who lives with a woman alcoholic—whether she is still drinking or is recovering in A.A.  A further source of help is noted on page 121.

July 5 – PM          Page xxv-xxvi, The Doctor’s Opinion

WE OF Alcoholics Anonymous believe that the reader will be interested in the medical estimate of the plan of recovery described in this book.  Convincing testimony must surely come from medical men who have had experience with the sufferings of our members and have witnessed our return to health.  A well-known doctor, chief physician at a nationally prominent hospital specializing in alcoholic and drug addiction, gave Alcoholics Anonymous this letter:

To Whom It May Concern:
I have specialized in the treatment of alcoholism for many years.
In late 1934 I attended a patient who, though he had been a competent businessman of good earning capacity, was an alcoholic of a type I had come to regard as hopeless.
In the course of his third treatment he acquired certain ideas concerning a possible means of recovery.  As part of his rehabilitation he commenced to present his conceptions to other alcoholics, impressing upon them that they must do likewise with still others.  This has become the basis of a rapidly growing fellowship of these men and their families.  This man and over one hundred others appear to have recovered.
I personally know scores of cases who were of the type with whom other methods had failed completely.
These facts appear to be of extreme medical importance; because of the extraordinary possibilities of rapid growth inherent in this group they may mark a new epoch in the annals of alcoholism.  These men may well have a remedy for thousands of such situations.
You may rely absolutely on anything they say about themselves.

Very truly yours,
William D. Silkworth, M.D.

July 5 – AM          Page 125-126, The Family Afterward, Chapter 9

Many alcoholics are enthusiasts.  They run to extremes.  At the beginning of recovery a man will take, as a rule, one of two directions.  He may either plunge into a frantic attempt to get on his feet in business, or he may be so enthralled by his new life that he talks or thinks of little else.  In either case certain family problems will arise.  With these we have had experience galore.

July 6 – PM          Page 2, Bill’s Story, Chapter 1

I took a night law course, and obtained employment as investigator for a surety company.  The drive for success was on.  I’d prove to the world I was important.  My work took me about Wall Street and little by little I became interested in the market.  Many people lost money—but some became very rich.  Why not I?  I studied economics and business as well as law.  Potential alcoholic that I was, I nearly failed my law course.  At one of the finals I was too drunk to think or write.  Though my drinking was not yet continuous, it disturbed my wife.  We had long talks when I would still her forebodings by telling her that men of genius conceived their best projects when drunk; that the most majestic constructions of philosophic thought were so derived.

July 6 – AM          Page 151, A Vision For You, Chapter 11

FOR MOST normal folks, drinking means conviviality, companionship and colorful imagination.  It means release from care, boredom and worry.  It is joyous intimacy with friends and a feeling that life is good.  But not so with us in those last days of heavy drinking.  The old pleasures were gone.  They were but memories.  Never could we recapture the great moments of the past.  There was an insistent yearning to enjoy life as we once did and a heartbreaking obsession that some new miracle of control would enable us to do it.  There was always one more attempt—and one more failure.

July 7 – PM          Page 58, How It Works, Chapter 5

Our stories disclose in a general way what we used to be like, what happened, and what we are like now.  If you have decided you want what we have and are willing to go to any length to get it—then you are ready to take certain steps.
At some of these we balked.  We thought we could find an easier, softer way.  But we could not.  With all the earnestness at our command, we beg of you to be fearless and thorough from the very start.  Some of us have tried to hold on to our old ideas and the result was nil until we let go absolutely.

July 7 – AM          Page 17, There Is A Solution, Chapter 2

WE, OF ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, know thousands of men and women who were once just as hopeless as Bill.  Nearly all have recovered.  They have solved the drink problem.
We are average Americans.  All sections of this country and many of its occupations are represented, as well as many political, economic, social, and religious backgrounds.  We are people who normally would not mix.  But there exists among us a fellowship, a friendliness, and an understanding which is indescribably wonderful.  We are like the passengers of a great liner the moment after rescue from shipwreck when camaraderie, joyousness and democracy pervade the vessel from steerage to Captain’s table.  Unlike the feelings of the ship’s passengers, however, our joy in escape from disaster does not subside as we go our individual ways.  The feeling of having shared in a common peril is one element in the powerful cement which binds us.  But that in itself would never have held us together as we are now joined.

July 8 – PM          Page 72-73, Into Action, Chapter 6

This is perhaps difficult—especially discussing our defects with another person.  We think we have done well enough in admitting these things to ourselves.  There is doubt about that.  In actual practice, we usually find a solitary self-appraisal insufficient.  Many of us thought it necessary to go much further.  We will be more reconciled to discussing ourselves with another person when we see good reasons why we should do so.  The best reason first:  If we skip this vital step, we may not overcome drinking.  Time after time newcomers have tried to keep to themselves certain facts about their lives.  Trying to avoid this humbling experience, they have turned to easier methods.  Almost invariably they got drunk.  Having persevered with the rest of the program, they wondered why they fell.  We think the reason is that they never completed their housecleaning.  They took inventory all right, but hung on to some of the worst items in stock.  They only thought they had lost their egoism and fear; they only thought they had humbled themselves.  But they had not learned enough of humility, fearlessness and honesty, in the sense we find it necessary, until they told someone else all their life story.

July 8 – AM          Page 89, Working with Others, Chapter 7

Perhaps you are not acquainted with any drinkers who want to recover.  You can easily find some by asking a few doctors, ministers, priests or hospitals.  They will be only too glad to assist you.  Don’t start out as an evangelist or reformer.  Unfortunately a lot of prejudice exists.  You will be handicapped if you arouse it.  Ministers and doctors are competent and you can learn much from them if you wish, but it happens that because of your own drinking experience you can be uniquely useful to other alcoholics.  So cooperate; never criticize.  To be helpful is our only aim.

July 9 – PM          Page 30, More About Alcoholism, Chapter 3

We learned that we had to fully concede to our innermost selves that we were alcoholics.  This is the first step in recovery.  The delusion that we are like other people, or presently may be, has to be smashed.
We alcoholics are men and women who have lost the ability to control our drinking.  We know that no real alcoholic ever recovers control.  All of us felt at times that we were regaining control, but such intervals—usually brief—were inevitably followed by still less control, which led in time to pitiful and incomprehensible demoralization.  We are convinced to a man that alcoholics of our type are in the grip of a progressive illness.  Over any considerable period we get worse, never better.

July 9 – AM          Page 104, To Wives, Chapter 8

As wives of Alcoholics Anonymous, we would like you to feel that we understand as perhaps few can.  We want to analyze mistakes we have made.  We want to leave you with the feeling that no situation is too difficult and no unhappiness too great to be overcome.

July 10 – PM          Page 44, We Agnostics, Chapter 4

But it isn’t so difficult.  About half our original fellowship were of exactly that type.  At first some of us tried to avoid the issue, hoping against hope we were not true alcoholics.  But after a while we had to face the fact that we must find a spiritual basis of life—or else.  Perhaps it is going to be that way with you.  But cheer up, something like half of us thought we were atheists or agnostics.  Our experience shows that you need not be disconcerted.

July 10 – AM          Page 122-123, The Family Afterward, Chapter 9

Cessation of drinking is but the first step away from a highly strained, abnormal condition.  A doctor said to us, “Years of living with an alcoholic is almost sure to make any wife or child neurotic.  The entire family is, to some extent, ill.”  Let families realize, as they start their journey, that all will not be fair weather.  Each in his turn may be footsore and may straggle.  There will be alluring shortcuts and by-paths down which they may wander and lose their way.
Suppose we tell you some of the obstacles a family will meet; suppose we suggest how they may be avoided—even converted to good use for others.  The family of an alcoholic longs for the return of happiness and security.  They remember when father was romantic, thoughtful and successful.  Today’s life is measured against that of other years and, when it falls short, the family may be unhappy.

July 11 – PM          Page 151, A Vision For You, Chapter 11

The less people tolerated us, the more we withdrew from society, from life itself.  As we became subjects of King Alcohol, shivering denizens of his mad realm, the chilling vapor that is loneliness settled down.  It thickened, ever becoming blacker.  Some of us sought out sordid places, hoping to find understanding companionship and approval.  Momentarily we did—then would come oblivion and the awful awakening to face the hideous Four Horsemen—Terror, Bewilderment, Frustration, Despair.  Unhappy drinkers who read this page will understand!

July 11 – AM          Page 169, Pioneers of A.A., Part I

PIONEERS OF A.A.

Dr. Bob and the nine men and women who here tell their stories were among the early members of A.A.’s first groups.
All ten have now passed away of natural causes, having maintained complete sobriety.  The periods of sobriety attained by these thirteen A.A.’s range from fifteen to forty-six years.
Today, hundreds of additional A.A. members can be found who have had no relapse for more than thirty years.
All of these, then, are the pioneers of A.A.  They bear witness that release from alcoholism can really be permanent.

July 12 – PM          Page 58-59, How It Works, Chapter 5

Remember that we deal with alcoholism—cunning, baffling, powerful!  Without help it is too much for us.  But there is One who has all power—that One is God.  May you find Him now!

July 12 – AM          Page 73, Into Action, Chapter 6

More than most people, the alcoholic leads a double life.  He is very much the actor.  To the outer world he presents his stage character.  This is the one he likes his fellows to see.  He wants to enjoy a certain reputation, but knows in his heart he doesn’t deserve it.
The inconsistency is made worse by the things he does on his sprees.  Coming to his senses, he is revolted at certain episodes he vaguely remembers.  These memories are a nightmare.  He trembles to think someone might have observed him.  As fast as he can, he pushes these memories far inside himself.  He hopes they will never see the light of day.  He is under constant fear and tension—that makes for more drinking.

July 13 – PM          Page 90, Working With Others, Chapter 7

When you discover a prospect for Alcoholics Anonymous, find out all you can about him.  If he does not want to stop drinking, don’t waste time trying to persuade him.  You may spoil a later opportunity.  This advice is given for his family also.  They should be patient, realizing they are dealing with a sick person.
If there is any indication that he wants to stop, have a good talk with the person most interested in him—usually his wife.  Get an idea of his behavior, his problems, his background, the seriousness of his condition, and his religious leanings.  You need this information to put yourself in his place, to see how you would like him to approach you if the tables were turned.

July 13 – AM          Page xxii, Foreword To Third Edition (1976)

BY March 1976, when this edition went to the printer, the total worldwide membership of Alcoholics Anonymous was conservatively estimated at more than 1,000,000, with almost 28,000 groups meeting in over 90 countries.¹
Surveys of groups in the United States and Canada indicate that A.A. is reaching out, not only to more and more people, but to a wider and wider range.  Women now make up more than one-fourth of the membership; among newer members, the proportion is nearly one-third.  Seven percent of the A.A.’s surveyed are less than 30 years of age—among them, many in their teens.²

¹In 2002, over 100,000 groups, with A.A. activity in 150 countries.
²In 2002, one-third are women; about one-eighth, 30 and under.

July 14 – PM          Page 2-3, Bill’s Story, Chapter 1

By the time I had completed the course, I knew the law was not for me.  The inviting maelstrom of Wall Street had me in its grip.  Business and financial leaders were my heroes.  Out of this alloy of drink and speculation, I commenced to forge the weapon that one day would turn in its flight like a boomerang and all but cut me to ribbons.  Living modestly, my wife and I saved $1,000.  It went into certain securities, then cheap and rather unpopular. I rightly imagined that they would some day have a great rise.  I failed to persuade my broker friends to send me out looking over factories and managements, but my wife and I decided to go anyway.  I had developed a theory that most people lost money in stocks through ignorance of markets.  I discovered many more reasons later on.
We gave up our positions and off we roared on a motorcycle, the sidecar stuffed with tent, blankets, a change of clothes, and three huge volumes of a financial reference service.  Our friends thought a lunacy commission should be appointed.  Perhaps they were right.  I had had some success at speculation, so we had a little money, but we once worked on a farm for a month to avoid drawing on our small capital.  That was the last honest manual labor on my part for many a day.  We covered the whole eastern United States in a year.  At the end of it, my reports to Wall Street procured me a position there and the use of a large expense account.  The exercise of an option brought in more money, leaving us with a profit of several thousand dollars for that year.

July 14 – AM          Page 123-124, The Family Afterward, Chapter 9

Now and then the family will be plagued by spectres from the past, for the drinking career of almost every alcoholic has been marked by escapades, funny, humiliating, shameful or tragic.  The first impulse will be to bury these skeletons in a dark closet and padlock the door.  The family may be possessed by the idea that future happiness can be based only upon forgetfulness of the past.  We think that such a view is self-centered and in direct conflict with the new way of living.
Henry Ford once made a wise remark to the effect that experience is the thing of supreme value in life.  That is true only if one is willing to turn the past to good account.  We grow by our willingness to face and rectify errors and convert them into assets.  The alcoholic’s past thus becomes the principal asset of the family and frequently it is almost the only one!

July 15 – PM          Page 162-163,  A Vision For You, Chapter 11

Some day we hope that every alcoholic who journeys will find a Fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous at his destination.  To some extent this is already true.  Some of us are salesmen and go about.  Little clusters of twos and threes and fives of us have sprung up in other communities, through contact with our two larger centers.  Those of us who travel drop in as often as we can.  This practice enables us to lend a hand, at the same time avoiding certain alluring distractions of the road, about which any traveling man can inform you.*
Thus we grow.  And so can you, though you be but one man with this book in your hand.  We believe and hope it contains all you will need to begin.

*Written in 1939.  In 1996, there are over 95,000 groups.  There is A.A. activity in 146 countries, with an estimated membership of two million.

July 15 – AM          Page 17, There Is A Solution, Chapter 2

The tremendous fact for every one of us is that we have discovered a common solution.  We have a way out on which we can absolutely agree, and upon which we can join in brotherly and harmonious action.  This is the great news this book carries to those who suffer from alcoholism.

July 16 – PM          Page 45, We Agnostics, Chapter 4

Lack of power, that was our dilemma.  We had to find a power by which we could live, and it had to be a Power greater than ourselves.  Obviously.  But where and how were we to find this Power?
Well, that’s exactly what this book is about.  Its main object is to enable you to find a Power greater than yourself which will solve your problem.  That means we have written a book which we believe to be spiritual as well as moral.  And it means, of course, that we are going to talk about God.  Here difficulty arises with agnostics.  Many times we talk to a new man and watch his hopes rise as we discuss his alcoholic problems and explain our fellowship.  But his face falls when we speak of spiritual matters, especially when we mention God, for we have re-opened a subject which our man thought he had neatly evaded or entirely ignored.

July 16 – AM           Page xv-xvi, Foreword to Second Edition (1955)

The spark that was to flare into the first A.A. group was struck at Akron, Ohio, in June 1935, during a talk between a New York stockbroker and an Akron physician.  Six months earlier, the broker had been relieved of his drink obsession by a sudden spiritual experience, following a meeting with an alcoholic friend who had been in contact with the Oxford Groups of that day.  He had also been greatly helped by the late Dr. William D. Silkworth, a New York specialist in alcoholism who is now accounted no less than a medical saint by A.A. members, and whose story of the early days of our Society appears in the next pages.  From this doctor, the broker had learned the grave nature of alcoholism.  Though he could not accept all the tenets of the Oxford Groups, he was convinced of the need for moral inventory, confession of personality defects, restitution to those harmed, helpfulness to others, and the necessity of belief in and dependence upon God.

July 17 – PM          Page 73, Into Action, Chapter 6

Psychologists are inclined to agree with us.  We have spent thousands of dollars for examinations.  We know but few instances where we have given these doctors a fair break.  We have seldom told them the whole truth nor have we followed their advice.  Unwilling to be honest with these sympathetic men, we were honest with no one else.  Small wonder many in the medical profession have a low opinion of alcoholics and their chance for recovery!

July 17 – AM          Page 59-60, How It Works, Chapter 5

Half measures availed us nothing.  We stood at the turning point.  We asked His protection and care with complete abandon.
Here are the steps we took, which are suggested as a program of recovery:

1. We admitted we were powerless over alcoholism—that our lives had become unmanageable. The Principle is Honesty
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.  The Principle is Hope
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.  The Principle is Faith
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. The Principle is Courage
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. The Principle is Integrity
6. We’re entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character. The Principle is Willingness
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.  The Principle is Humility
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.  The Principle is Brotherly Love
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.  The Principle is Justice
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.  The Principle is Perseverance
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.  The Principle is Spiritual Awareness
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.  The Principle is Service

July 18 – PM          Page 90, Working With Others, Chapter 7

Sometimes it is wise to wait till he goes on a binge.  The family may object to this, but unless he is in a dangerous physical condition, it is better to risk it.  Don’t deal with him when he is very drunk, unless he is ugly and the family needs your help.  Wait for the end of the spree, or at least for a lucid interval.  Then let his family or a friend ask him if he wants to quit for good and if he would go to any extreme to do so.  If he says yes, then his attention should be drawn to you as a person who has recovered.  You should be described to him as one of a fellowship who, as part of their own recovery, try to help others and who will be glad to talk to him if he cares to see you.

July 18 – AM          Page 105, To Wives, Chapter 8

Our loyalty and the desire that our husbands hold up their heads and be like other men have begotten all sorts of predicaments.  We have been unselfish and self-sacrificing.  We have told innumerable lies to protect our pride and our husbands’ reputations.  We have prayed, we have begged, we have been patient.  We have struck out viciously.  We have run away.  We have been hysterical.  We have been terror stricken.  We have sought sympathy.  We have had retaliatory love affairs with other men.
Our homes have been battle-grounds many an evening.  In the morning we have kissed and made up.  Our friends have counseled chucking the men and we have done so with finality, only to be back in a little while hoping, always hoping.  Our men have sworn great solemn oaths that they were through drinking forever.  We have believed them when no one else could or would.  Then, in days, weeks, or months, a fresh outburst.

July 19 – PM          Page 171, Doctor Bob’s Nightmare, Part I

DOCTOR BOB’S NIGHTMARE

A co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous.  The birth of our Society dates from his first day of permanent sobriety, June 10, 1935.
To 1950, the year of his death, he carried the A.A. message to more than 5,000 alcoholic men and women, and to all these he gave his medical services without thought of charge.
In this prodigy of service, he was well assisted by Sister Ignatia at St. Thomas Hospital in Akron, Ohio, one of the greatest friends our Fellowship will ever know.

July 19 – AM          Page 30-31, More About Alcoholism, Chapter 3

We are like men who have lost their legs; they never grow new ones.  Neither does there appear to be any kind of treatment which will make alcoholics of our kind like other men.  We have tried every imaginable remedy.  In some instances there has been brief recovery, followed always by a still worse relapse.  Physicians who are familiar with alcoholism agree there is no such thing as making a normal drinker out of an alcoholic. Science may one day accomplish this, but it hasn’t done so yet.

July 20 – PM          Page 124, The Family Afterward, Chapter 9

This painful past may be of infinite value to other families still struggling with their problem.  We think each family which has been relieved owes something to those who have not, and when the occasion requires, each member of it should be only too willing to bring former mistakes, no matter how grievous, out of their hiding places.  Showing others who suffer how we were given help is the very thing which makes life seem so worth while to us now.  Cling to the thought that, in God’s hands, the dark past is the greatest possession you have—the key to life and happiness for others.  With it you can avert death and misery for them.

July 20 – AM          Page 567, Spiritual Experience, Appendix II

II
SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE

The terms “spiritual experience” and “spiritual awakening” are used many times in this book which, upon careful reading, shows that the personality change sufficient to bring about recovery from alcoholism has manifested itself among us in many different forms.
Yet it is true that our first printing gave many readers the impression that these personality changes, or religious experiences, must be in the nature of sudden and spectacular upheavals.  Happily for everyone, this conclusion is erroneous.

July 21 – PM          Page 3, Bill’s Story, Chapter 1

For the next few years fortune threw money and applause my way.  I had arrived.  My judgment and ideas were followed by many to the tune of paper millions.  The great boom of the late twenties was seething and swelling.  Drink was taking an important and exhilarating part in my life.  There was loud talk in the jazz places uptown.  Everyone spent in thousands and chattered in millions.  Scoffers could scoff and be damned.  I made a host of fair-weather friends.
My drinking assumed more serious proportions, continuing all day and almost every night.  The remonstrances of my friends terminated in a row and I became a lone wolf. There were many unhappy scenes in our sumptuous apartment.  There had been no real infidelity, for loyalty to my wife, helped at times by extreme drunkenness, kept me out of those scrapes.

July 21 – AM           Page 73-74, Into Action, Chapter 6

We must be entirely honest with somebody if we expect to live long or happily in this world.  Rightly and naturally, we think well before we choose the person or persons with whom to take this intimate and confidential step.  Those of us belonging to a religious denomination which requires confession must, and of course, will want to go to the properly appointed authority whose duty it is to receive it.  Though we have no religious connection, we may still do well to talk with someone ordained by an established religion.  We often find such a person quick to see and understand our problem.  Of course, we sometimes encounter people who do not understand alcoholics.

July 22 – PM          Page 152, A Vision For You, Chapter 11

We have shown how we got out from under.  You say, “Yes, I’m willing.  But am I to be consigned to a life where I shall be stupid, boring and glum, like some righteous people I see?  I know I must get along without liquor, but how can I?  Have you a sufficient substitute?”

Yes, there is a substitute and it is vastly more than that. It is a fellowship in Alcoholics Anonymous. There you will find release from care, boredom and worry. Your imagination will be fired. Life will mean something at last. the most satisfactory years of your existence lie ahead. Thus we find the fellowship, and so will you.

July 22 – AM          Page xi, Preface

THIS IS the fourth edition of the book “Alcoholics Anonymous.”  The first edition appeared in April 1939, and in the following sixteen years, more than 300,000 copies went into circulation.  The second edition, published in 1955, reached a total of more than 1,150,000 copies.  The third edition, which came off the press in 1976, achieved a circulation of 11,698,000.
Because this book has become the basic text for our Society and has helped such large numbers of alcoholic men and women to recovery, there exists a sentiment against any radical changes being made in it.  Therefore, the first portion of this volume, describing the A.A. recovery program, has been left untouched in the course of revisions made for both the second and the third editions.  The section called “The Doctor’s Opinion” has been kept intact, just as it was originally written in 1939 by the late Dr. William D. Silkworth, our Society’s great medical benefactor.

July 23 – PM          Page 18, There Is A Solution, Chapter 2

An illness of this sort—and we have come to believe it an illness—involves those about us in a way no other human sickness can.  If a person has cancer all are sorry for him and no one is angry or hurt.  But not so with the alcoholic illness, for with it there goes annihilation of all the things worth while in life.  It engulfs all whose lives touch the sufferer’s.  It brings misunderstanding, fierce resentment, financial insecurity, disgusted friends and employers, warped lives of blameless children, sad wives and parents—anyone can increase the list.

July 23 – AM          Page 45-46, We Agnostics, Chapter 4

We know how he feels.  We have shared his honest doubt and prejudice.  Some of us have been violently anti-religious.  To others, the word “God” brought up a particular idea of Him with which someone had tried to impress them during childhood.  Perhaps we rejected this particular conception because it seemed inadequate.  With that rejection we imagined we had abandoned the God idea entirely.  We were bothered with the thought that faith and dependence upon a Power beyond ourselves was somewhat weak, even cowardly.  We look upon this world of warring individuals, warring theological systems, and inexplicable calamity, with deep skepticism.  We looked askance at many individuals who claimed to be godly.  How could a Supreme Being have anything to do with it all?  And who could comprehend a Supreme Being anyhow?  Yet, in other moments, we found ourselves thinking, when enchanted by a starlit night, “Who, then, made all this?”  There was a feeling of awe and wonder, but it was fleeting and soon lost.

July 24 – PM          Page xxvi, The Doctor’s Opinion

The physician who, at our request, gave us this letter, has been kind enough to enlarge upon his views in another statement which follows.  In this statement he confirms what we who have suffered alcoholic torture must believe—that the body of the alcoholic is quite as abnormal as his mind.  It did not satisfy us to be told that we could not control our drinking just because we were maladjusted to life, that we were in full flight from reality, or were outright mental defectives.  These things were true to some extent, in fact, to a considerable extent with some of us.  But we are sure that our bodies were sickened as well.  In our belief, any picture of the alcoholic which leaves out this physical factor is incomplete.
The doctor’s theory that we have an allergy to alcohol interests us.  As laymen, our opinion as to its soundness may, of course, mean little.  But as ex-problem drinkers, we can say that his explanation makes good sense.  It explains many things for which we cannot otherwise account.

July 24 – AM          Page 90-91, Working With Others, Chapter 7

If he does not want to see you, never force yourself upon him.  Neither should the family hysterically plead with him to do anything, nor should they tell him much about you.  They should wait for the end of his next drinking bout.  You might place this book where he can see it in the interval.  Here no specific rule can be given.  The family must decide these things.  But urge them not to be over-anxious, for that might spoil matters.
Usually the family should not try to tell your story.  When possible, avoid meeting a man through his family.  Approach through a doctor or an institution is a better bet.  If your man needs hospitalization, he should have it, but not forcibly unless he is violent.  Let the doctor, if he will, tell him he has something in the way of a solution.

July 25 – PM          Page xviii, Foreword to Second Edition (1955)

In the spring of 1940, John D. Rockefeller, Jr. gave a dinner for many of his friends to which he invited A.A. members to tell their stories.  News of this got on the world wires; inquiries poured in again and many people went to the bookstores to get the book “Alcoholics Anonymous.”  By March 1941 the membership had shot up to 2,000.  Then Jack Alexander wrote a feature article in the Saturday Evening Post and placed such a compelling picture of A.A. before the general public that alcoholics in need of help really deluged us. By the close of 1941, A.A. numbered 8,000 members.  The mushrooming process was in full swing.  A.A. had become a national institution.

July 25 – AM          Page 60, How It Works, Chapter 5

Many of us exclaimed, “What an order!  I can’t go through with it.”  Do not be discouraged.  No one among us has been able to maintain anything like perfect adherence to these principles.  We are not saints.  The point is, that we are willing to grow along spiritual lines.  The principles we have set down are guides to progress.  We claim spiritual progress rather than spiritual perfection.
Our description of the alcoholic, the chapter to the agnostic, and our personal adventures before and after make clear three pertinent ideas:

(a)          That we were alcoholic and could not manage our own lives.

(b)          That probably no human power could have relieved our alcoholism.

(c)          That God could and would if He were sought.

July 26 – PM          Page 172, Doctor Bob’s Nightmare, Part I

After high school came four years in one of the best colleges in the country where drinking seemed to be a major extra-curricular activity.  Almost everyone seemed to do it.  I did it more and more, and had lots of fun without much grief, either physical or financial.  I seemed to be able to snap back the next morning better than most of my fellow drinkers, who were cursed (or perhaps blessed) with a great deal of morning-after nausea.  Never once in my life have I had a headache, which fact leads me to believe that I was an alcoholic almost from the start.  My whole life seemed to be centered around doing what I wanted to do, without regard for the rights, wishes, or privileges of anyone else; a state of mind which became more and more predominant as the years passed.  I was graduated “summa cum laude” in the eyes of the drinking fraternity, but not in the eyes of the Dean.

July 26 – AM          Page 74, Into Action, Chapter 6

If we cannot or would rather not do this, we search our acquaintance for a close-mouthed, understanding friend.  Perhaps our doctor or psychologist will be the person.  It may be one of our own family, but we cannot disclose anything to our wives or our parents which will hurt them and make them unhappy.  We have no right to save our own skin at another person’s expense.  Such parts of our story we tell to someone who will understand, yet be unaffected.  The rule is we must be hard on ourself, but always considerate of others.

July 27 – PM          Page 105-106, To Wives, Chapter 8

We seldom had friends at our homes, never knowing how or when the men of the house would appear.  We could make few social engagements.  We came to live almost alone.  When we were invited out, our husbands sneaked so many drinks that they spoiled the occasion.  If, on the other hand, they
took nothing, their self-pity made them killjoys.
There was never financial security.  Positions were always in jeopardy or gone.  An armored car could not have brought the pay envelopes home.  The checking account melted like snow in June.
Sometimes there were other women.  How heartbreaking was this discovery; how cruel to be told they understood our men as we did not!

July 27 – AM          Page 31, More About Alcoholism, Chapter 3

Despite all we can say, many who are real alcoholics are not going to believe they are in that class.  By every form of self-deception and experimentation, they will try to prove themselves exceptions to the rule, therefore nonalcoholic.  If anyone who is showing inability to control his drinking can do the right-about-face and drink like a gentleman, our hats are off to him.  Heaven knows, we have tried hard enough and long enough to drink like other people!
Here are some of the methods we have tried:  Drinking beer only, limiting the number of drinks, never drinking alone, never drinking in the morning, drinking only at home, never having it in the house, never drinking during business hours, drinking only at parties, switching from scotch to brandy, drinking only natural wines, agreeing to resign if ever drunk on the job, taking a trip, not taking a trip, swearing off forever (with and without a solemn oath), taking more physical exercise, reading inspirational books, going to health farms and sanitariums, accepting voluntary commitment to asylums—we could increase the list ad infinitum.

July 28 – PM          Page 124-125, The Family Afterward, Chapter 9

It is possible to dig up past misdeeds so they become a blight, a veritable plague.  For example, we know of situations in which the alcoholic or his wife have had love affairs.  In the first flush of spiritual experience they forgave each other and drew closer together.  The miracle of reconciliation was at hand.  Then, under one provocation or another, the aggrieved one would unearth the old affair and angrily cast its ashes about.  A few of us have had these growing pains and they hurt a great deal.  Husbands and wives have sometimes been obliged to separate for a time until new perspective, new victory over hurt pride could be rewon.  In most cases, the alcoholic survived this ordeal without relapse, but not always.  So we think that unless some good and useful purpose is to be served, past occurrences should not be discussed.

July 28 – AM          Page 3-4, Bill’s Story, Chapter 1

In 1929 I contracted golf fever.  We went at once to the country, my wife to applaud while I started out to overtake Walter Hagen.  Liquor caught up with me much faster than I came up behind Walter.  I began to be jittery in the morning.  Golf permitted drinking every day and every night.  It was fun to carom around the exclusive course which had inspired such awe in me as a lad.  I acquired the impeccable coat of tan one sees upon the well-to-do.  The local banker watched me whirl fat checks in and out of his till with amused skepticism.

July 29 – PM          Page 152-153, A Vision For You, Chapter 11

You are going to meet these new friends in your own community.  Near you, alcoholics are dying helplessly like people in a sinking ship.  If you live in a large place, there are hundreds.  High and low, rich and poor, these are future fellows of Alcoholics Anonymous.  Among them you will make lifelong friends.  You will be bound to them with new and wonderful ties, for you will escape disaster together and you will commence shoulder to shoulder your common journey.  Then you will know what it means to give of yourself that others may survive and rediscover life.  You will learn the full meaning of “Love thy neighbor as thyself.”

July 29 – AM           Page 95, Working With Others, Chapter 7

If he is not interested in your solution, if he expects you to act only as a banker for his financial difficulties or a nurse for his sprees, you may have to drop him until he changes his mind.  This he may do after he gets hurt some more.
If he is sincerely interested and wants to see you again, ask him to read this book in the interval.  After doing that, he must decide for himself whether he wants to go on.  He should not be pushed or prodded by you, his wife, or his friends.  If he is to find God, the desire must come from within.
If he thinks he can do the job in some other way, or prefers some other spiritual approach, encourage him to follow his own conscience.  We have no monopoly on God; we merely have an approach that worked with us.  But point out that we alcoholics have much in common and that you would like, in any case, to be friendly.  Let it go at that.

July 30 – PM           Page 60-61, How It Works, Chapter 5

Being convinced, we were at Step Three, which is that we decided to turn our will and our life over to God as we understood Him.  Just what do we mean by that, and just what do we do?
The first requirement is that we be convinced that any life run on self-will can hardly be a success.  On that basis we are almost always in collision with something or somebody, even though our motives are good.  Most people try to live by self-propulsion.  Each person is like an actor who wants to run the whole show; is forever trying to arrange the lights, the ballet, the scenery and the rest of the players in his own way.  If his arrangements would only stay put, if only people would do as he wished, the show would be great.  Everybody, including himself, would be pleased.  Life would be wonderful.  In trying to make these arrangements our actor may sometimes be quite virtuous.  He may be kind, considerate, patient, generous; even modest and self-sacrificing.  On the other hand, he may be mean, egotistical, selfish and dishonest.  But, as with most humans, he is more likely to have varied traits.

July 30 – AM          Page 74-75, Into Action, Chapter 6

Notwithstanding the great necessity for discussing ourselves with someone, it may be one is so situated that there is no suitable person available.  If that is so, this step may be postponed, only, however, if we hold ourselves in complete readiness to go through with it at the first opportunity.  We say this because we are very anxious that we talk to the right person.  It is important that he be able to keep a confidence; that he fully understand and approve what we are driving at; that he will not try to change our plan.  But we must not use this as a mere excuse to postpone.
When we decide who is to hear our story, we waste no time.  We have a written inventory and we are prepared for a long talk.  We explain to our partner what we are about to do and why we have to do it.  He should realize that we are engaged upon a life-and-death errand.  Most people approached in this way will be glad to help; they will be honored by our confidence.

July 31 – PM          Page 46, We Agnostics, Chapter 4

Yes, we of agnostic temperament have had these thoughts and experiences.  Let us make haste to reassure you.  We found that as soon as we were able to lay aside prejudice and express even a willingness to believe in a Power greater than ourselves, we commenced to get results, even though it was impossible for any of us to fully define or comprehend that Power, which is God.

July 31 – AM          Page 21-22, There Is A Solution, Chapter 2

Here is the fellow who has been puzzling you, especially in his lack of control.  He does absurd, incredible, tragic things while drinking.  He is a real Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. He is seldom mildly intoxicated.  He is always more or less insanely drunk.  His disposition while drinking resembles his normal nature but little.  He may be one of the finest fellows in the world.  Yet let him drink for a day, and he frequently becomes disgustingly, and even dangerously anti-social.  He has a positive genius for getting tight at exactly the wrong moment, particularly when some important decision must be made or engagement kept.  He is often perfectly sensible and well balanced concerning everything except liquor, but in that respect he is incredibly dishonest and selfish.  He often possesses special abilities, skills, and aptitudes, and has a promising career ahead of him.  He uses his gifts to build up a bright outlook for his family and himself, and then pulls the structure down on his head by a senseless series of sprees.  He is the fellow who goes to bed so intoxicated he ought to sleep the clock around.  Yet early next morning he searches madly for the bottle he misplaced the night before.  If he can afford it, he may have liquor concealed all over his house to be certain no one gets his entire supply away from him to throw down the wastepipe.  As matters grow worse, he begins to use a combination of high-powered sedative and liquor to quiet his nerves so he can go to work.  Then comes the day when he simply cannot make it and gets drunk all over again.  Perhaps he goes to a doctor who gives him morphine or some sedative with which to taper off.  Then he begins to appear at hospitals and sanitariums.
This is by no means a comprehensive picture of the true alcoholic, as our behavior patterns vary.  But this description should identify him roughly.

Reprinted from the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.